I am an auntie again. My sister inlaw just gave birth to Marcus Matthew Martin October 26, 2009. He weighed 6pds 9ounces, 19 1/2 inches. He was an early baby, his original date was November 10th. I guess he wanted to be born before Halloween so he can dress up.:)
Todd was able to meet his boy on web cam. I am sure you all know that he is deployed and he wont be back till June.
Things are going great with us. We are enjoying the cool weather and I am hoping for some snow but I doubt that. We got our pumpkins and will be carving them on Friday. I love Halloween because I love candy.
There may be a change in plans for Kenny's deployment, he may have to leave in March instead of May but we are not for sure yet. He would only be gone for 4 months, so it's not too bad as to other people's deployment.
I would like to say that whenever someone has a baby in my family or a close friend I always get the comments back saying (when are you and kenny going to have a kid? your getting old better before your eggs die, and some other comments along that line). I would like to address the issue of that.
Fact: Kenny and I have been married for over 3 years, we have an amazing married life, we have an amazing dog Cora which I call my daughter, and we are enjoying our life being married and being us 2, well 3 counting Cora.
Many of you who know me, knows how much I would love to start a family. Timing is the key for us. Kenny will be deployed next year and I have no idea when, if he deploys in May then he would be gone for the birth of our kid if I were to get pregnant before the end of the year. I would love for my husband to be there on that special day. Also, my eggs aren't dying anytime soon. I technically have 11 more years till I am 35, so there for I am not old. Also, I know people who are older than me that are not even married or have kids.
What I am trying to say or maybe just venting a little bit is that I do not appreciate the comments, cause maybe I am or have been trying for some time and just seeing them makes me sad or maybe I am just not ready yet and waiting for my special moment when everyone I know are done with having babies.
I love my life and I LOVE being an aunt and sharing those precious moments with my nephew and my friends kids. Life is too short to be worrying about when to start a family, I live my life to the fullest and I know that god has a plan for me and Kenny.
I love you all but I appreciate if you kept the baby comments to yourself.
Thanks!!
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